Is He Leading You On?

ZOMG :) Mmkay, this will be my first post on and about love life/dating/sex.


And I'm sure this post will help and educate some people, not just the girl but to both sides(M n F) -Lets hope.

"Man must search for what is right, and let happiness come on its own" - Johann Pestalozzi

Girls, have you ever stuck in a moment and wondering is he leading you on or not?
Guys, have you ever tried to lead a girl however, things aren't expected to be your way?

Below is some few ways that you can know if he's playing with you:

1. Your time with him is so limited, he doesn't spend much time with you and always making excuses.
Logically- Someone who loves you would love to spend as much time as he/she can. Does it make sense?

2. He ignore whatever you are interested in. Your convo with him will end until, he giving his simple answer; "ah okay", "how was it?" "cool though". He wont go anymore further than that.
Logically- The one who love you will try to find out more and even would wanna try. Now is your eyes is wide opened?
P/S: doesn't mean the one who ask a bit more detail is flirting you

3. This one is to most obvious part, when you ask him something like, "do you like me?". Eventho the answer will be a yes or a no. They still gonna reply in a form of something sweet bitter like, "I dunno yet how i feel but =D"
or "I dunno yet how I feel but it does make my heart beats 53x faster". He wont say he likes you.

Why is that?
If his answer is no, that will sure be 120% the carpet to be rolled(ruined)
If his answer is yes, this will result having him going for a journey while naked on a flaming bridge and without having a shield with him. Having it without the backup is stupid.Top rated way poklen been using.

Example of without the shield:
Lets say you found out the guy got a gf. You'd prolly gonna say this with tears and madness "you said you love!"
He won't have anything to say besides his sorry with guiltiness.

Example having it with a shield:
...*skipped the dramatic moment*.. "you said you love!". It is time to use the shield, "what's with you? i never said, or even love you". nais ain't it?



4. He won't be available whenever you got plan to do with him. He have no interest in it.

Cliky! Clicky!

5. You're not his main priority(friends).


Anyways, this were wrote by a guy. Never expect no's and maybe's.
As for the guy:

Hmm...

Life here is very dull and it's gonna get even duller, it used to be 10 Bruneians living here, now the only guys left amount to no more than 5 people.
It's going to be like Big Brother , only more gay and full of conspiracies.

What better way to kill time than reading endless articles... right? right?

......... anyway I found this interesting article.

PMS is no excuse ???

Yep, that time of the month when:

• You live in constant fear, knowing a slight mistake could cause you your life.
• If you are the boyfriend , you are the first target of her premenstrual crosshairs.
• The unforgiving moodswings, how the heck does that happen??

I have nothing to say about this article though, I don't wanna be known as a sexist.

The article was written by a woman though.
Was kind of accurate... but i didn't say I agree with it.

But it also makes you think, if women can have PMS as an excuse to go all barbarian on us for a duration of time each month, can men have an excuse to do the same thing?

A grace period perhaps? when it's OK to be mean?
Have these illogical moodswings?

Only in our dreams men... only in our dreams....

This day and age, we are made to feel bad about our primeval urges and a single negative comment of the female kind makes you sexist. It's getting harder for men to even be men.

su..suwit ;]

Dedicated to my cousin, Naddieh xD

cantabile

play the last note, and have no regrets:)

ho pls, or both us die.

This one made me fell off my chair. Not really :)
Enjoi!

Clicky! Clicky!

Determination

nodame cantabile, it made me laugh and cry, inspired ku:D

Nasty questions on from Yahoo answer.

For some reason I found Yahoo Answers is a quick reference book. Until :
Oh okay, I just gonna list out some that I found really humorous to me.

1. Is it ok to touch yourself when you hear your parents have sex? He continues:

“I know it may sound weird, but my parents are still pretty young and have very loud sex and sometimes late at night I can hear them and I cant help but touch myself. Is this bad or is it something other people have done too?"

Well he prolly came to the right place for a right help. One of them responded:

"no no nooo! you should definitely blast some music, or do anything to keep yourself from hearing it :( Thats just wrong on so many levels."

2. Girlfriend aint had period since?

"ok im kinda worryed here since my g/f got pregnant and all she isnt been havein her period do u think the baby is drinkin the blood??? she 6 month pregnant"

First thing first, why would he wanna have sex when he didn't what happen next?


3. Are my masturbation habits bad? Just love her description:

"I have around 15-20 orgasms a day. Sometimes I reach into the 30's. I do it a lot, but I really don't know how to stop."

Seriously, 15-20 is above humanly can do, nor to animals!


4. Is the vagina or whatever girls pee out of in the same place as a boys penus? He continues:

"Or is it in the back where a boys --- is? I know this is an odd question but i have a valid reason to ask it."

One user responded:

"yes women have penises on the inside that's how they pee they just don't stick out like mens do"

5. My Boyfriend Has Skin Cancer?

"I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months now,he's my absolute everything.But last week he got told he has bad 'Skin Cancer',When he told me i was heartbroken.Should i tell him that we should end it ? or should we stay together?:( x"

This one laughed my ass off the most. This equation will explain what gonna happen if she do leave her boyfreind:

skin cancer ---> brokenhearted ---> suicide

No man shall ask another man to open a jar for him.

Train rides from Southampton to Swansea consists of a journey about 3-4 hours long, smells that bring tears to your eyes, rowdy drunk young teens, lengthy delays and just plain boring. Being the extraordinary genius that I am , while I was in Swansea I thought, "Why not buy some books to kill the time?".

So I did , about 7 books in fact or more like 2 comic books, 3 novels , 1 magazine and one ..hmm I don't know what it's supposed to be categorized under. The comic books I finished even before stepping on the train, there was just nothing to do. Also now I have another reason to procrastinate , I started reading comics.

One book however stood above the rest, the one I read during the train ride. Why can't I categorize it? I am not sure if it's a novel , a holy scripture or something else. Lo and behold, ladies and gentlemen.....




This book gives people a better understanding of men, the interactions between a man with his mates and women, why men do the things they do and how to be a man. In other words, a manual of manliness.Yes, it's kinda hard being a man these days.

Here are some excerpts from the book that I found interesting,taken from chapter V: Men and women:

The List Gene in Women
"The list gene.Women love making lists, so did the Nazis. I'm not making any kind of connection, I'm just saying."

The Bill Splitting Gene in Women
"Four men have something to eat together. The bill arrives. It's split into four. Because there's four of them.

Four women have something to eat together. Then over the next seventeen minutes they carry out complex PhD level maths because Jody didn't have the starter or a white wine spritzer and Mandy just had the salad so she just wants to pay for that and that alone. And Claire didn't have any drinks so you can work out her share of JUST THE FOOD AS I ONLY HAD TAP WATER''

The Bullshit gene in Men
"Only found in men because men are born bullshitters. Put any men in a difficult situation and he will fall back to his default setting.Lying."

The Catatonic Gene in Women
"YOU CAN NEVER WIN THE WHO'S MORE TIRED FIGHT WITH A WOMAN.EVER"


So men, if you want to understand yourself better, I really recommend this book. We will never understand women, however this book helps. A bit.






"

yum

I miss you
I miss touching your soft skin
I miss putting my fingers on you
I miss how my fingers work on you
I miss the way you stand there looking very sexy
I miss hearing the oh-so orgasmic sound from you
I miss the pleasure you gave me when I'm with you
I miss how your sound echos through the room
I miss the way you look after we had our private sessions


I miss you piano:)
haha

options

3 down, 3 more to go:)

I choose this path, it is my own decision.

oh physical

Brain!! help me:) In return, I will treat you, sushi!!!

whoa!

Dillah, here again. but not going to publish and update, *OH I just did*.
Hmm, I can say that I am totally inspired now. I always do have something on my mind though.
Will save the update for the coming day :)





Cliky! Clicky!

PS: the video above is an observation. Most girl actually didn't found it as a joke, eh joke. Even after watching it over and over again. Admit it you're girl.

2nd reader - anonymous

I spotted on our feedjit, someone from the Fudge Dutch? visited our not yet known blog.(ha ha ha)

Why do you think girls crop their pictures?

Have that ever flashed onto your flashy brain?


Cliky! Clicky!

A fit fat man

It's 1 am and I still can't sleep.. what the hell... so let's reminisce about things.

Last week I went jogging with a friend, our route is 3 miles, starting with going down a hill and going up the other side, and then jog all the way around Warsash. The thing is I get tired after going up the hill. Which is presumably... 3 minutes after starting the jog.

When I did the same route one year ago it was okay, I'd never go short of breath and pfft it was easy. Now it feels like hell. So it made me think, how'd I let myself go this past year and become this fat fat man.

Everyone says I'm fat now, the guys ,naddie, whoever. Yeah I guess that kinda happens when you gain 10 Kgs.

Wow 10 KGs... a sack of rice.. but hey whatever, I didn't live a sedentary lifestyle, I just didn't control what I ate, and I lifted weights.

So actually it was muscle and fat .


No...I'm not in denial....

and naddie... the bet is still on.. a lean fit body by august.



After a workout, a cig and a protein shake..

Dating

Going out with a younger man? why not:D

Epic Failure.

I stated today that I'm leaving the building(just the server) in my game, on the forum section.
Thus that one of the player responded and posted this to me:


Doesn't amused me when i found it.
Here's what I have replied to him:


Pretty satisfied with it, most ppl were on my side.(mwahah)

jaz naiz. err

Pronnounced : Just nais, eh.

I dunno how you gonna find our blog's new skin.

For the 3 piglet we found it just nais, and credito to the creativo, Dillah(me! =P)

It took bit of my sleeping time(3-4 hours ;D), I don't really mind about that; I enjoyed fixing. Too bad I couldn't find any cool sculpture of pig too skinned the blog.

Snow

'challenge yourself and be the greatest'

Measure of a man.

"He that hath a beard is more than a youth, and he that hath no beard is less than a man'' -William Shakespeare (English dramatist, playwright and poet)


Found some old pictures of me with a beard... I stopped shaving (only my facial hair though) for 3 months I think.

around 20

'count what you have now'
'don't count what you don't have'

banar tu:D

owh aku rindu:)

updatez?

Umm, I don't know what I gonna fil up. I'm not sure what to write in.

Ain't that sound similar?
Who cares? It's mine ours.
Oh yeah, ours.

I found out that Muiz joined blogger since Feb 2008(around that).
he he he... epicly funneh..


Found something on the net:

Nais prduct eh?
PS: not good for virgin.

kawin?

barutah ku paham organic chemistry!!!!! omg gila!!! thanks to my super duper intelligent brain *proud face* haha aku paham!!

actually i dont have any ideas to write tapi since muiz *coughourbosscough* haha suruh update. update saja tia:) owh i cant wait to balik Brunei!!! FOOD is the reason why haha too bad muiz nada nanti. the last time kami hangout di excapade, overdose of sushi:) balik tah lakas2 muiz, or cakap arah urg in charge arah ko yg ko kan kawin:D

4 more to go and I'm done!!!

''I introduced myself,you introduced yourself, this is a good conversation"

"Many of our customs seem strange to you. And the same is true of yours. For example, not to introduce yourself is considered extremely rude, even among enemies." - Lord Katsumoto , The Last Samurai (2003).

As expected the first post is going to be about intros....nothing special here..

Why is it called The Nasty Pig Sty?

Simply because Naddie has a fascination of pigs, Naddie is Pigaholic...
One fine evening, being a man, I thought of random things...
Below is what must've crossed my head during that time:

• Some hot coffee would be nice in this cold weather
• Clean room... meh next time
• Did I just smoke a cig? *lights another one up
• Dirty thoughts
• Blogging with Naddie and Dillah? Feasible idea?
• Blank
• Dirty thoughts some more
  

Then Naddie was conveniently online.. so I asked her if she'd like to do a blog with Dillah and Me.
Yeah she said . So did Dillah.

After about 3 hrs thinking of a name for the blog, we decided thenastypigsty would be OK.

Anyway here are the contributors.... we still don't know what this blog is gonna be about though.

Naddie

• Nadiah a.k.a Naddie
• Funny , optimistic and simple.
  
• Also single. Is she available ? ask her.
• Loves pigs and sushi.
  
• Prefers classic songs.
  
• Still studying
  

• Dillah
• Funny , easygoing and ... shy?
  
• Studying

• Mues a.k.a The Masterpiece
• Loves travel and in pursuit of leisure
• Broke most of the time
• Studying
  
• Will quote whenever necessary
  

That's it for the first post, hopefully this blog will be filled with better and fun things.